At the end of training, one of participant asked me about the tips to makes our life better. It’s a common question but the good one. I believe that ever one has been asking about it and I also believe that everyone in this world want to make their life better.
Before we get into the topic of the participant question, we should have to know that our life is what our thought makes it. Our life is a result of the choices we take. We have good capability to change our life better. We are the architect and builder of own life, destiny and fortune. We are the developer of all good aspect in life. We also need to know that every single moment in our life is very important. Through the moment we have ability and capability to change our life better
I am trying to shorten the answer of this question by providing three important points that we should have to do in order to make our life better.
Enjoy and appreciate the little things
In fact, in our life we often do not appreciate the little things and we are not enjoying on it. We always think about something big and we always trying hard to seek and obtain big things, and avoid the little things. It’s not good way. Many great and success people in this world start from the little things. I gave an example my CEO. He started his career from being an admin officer with small salary. But he really enjoyed and appreciates the position. He believes that is a starting point towards a higher level. Little thing mean a lot. Every little thing has the ability to make us happy. Learn to enjoy every little thing in your life. Because one day you will realize that you lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones.
Change your entire life and make your life better. Be thankful for what you have now instead of thinking of what you don’t have. You can never be happy in this way. Never leave something good to find something better. Because once you will realize that you had the best and there can never be something better than the best.
For most of our life, nothing wonderful happens. It’s always the same. If you don’t enjoy getting up and working and finishing your work and sitting down a meal with family or friends then the chances are that you are never going to be happy in your life. If your happiness or unhappiness depends on major events like getting a great new job, huge amounts of money, a flawlessly happy marriage life or a trip to Paris, you are not going to be happy much of the time. If, on the other hand, your happiness depends on a good breakfast, flowers in the yard, a drink or a nap, then you are more likely to live quite a bit of happiness. So to find not all of us can do great things. But we can surely do little things with great love. This one choice cans happiness in life, you must understand that there is always something to be happy about and enjoy. You just need to learn how to find it. Then you don’t have to try to make your life better. Because your life will be better as your thoughts change.
Do Things You Love with Great Love.
If you want to reach things that nobody else is reaching, you must do things nobody else is doing. If you cannot do great things, do things you love with great love. We would like to do things we love. But usually, we don’t do things we love with great love. We don’t put our best energy in it. Be faithful in small things you love to do. Because this is where your strength lies.
Don’t get tired of doing things you love. Because this is what will help yourself utilize your inner talents in the best way possible. Sometimes these little things will be the biggest part of your life. So it’s not bad to love doing little things. When you love your work, you can create your destiny through your work. Remember, things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out.
When you want something you have never had, you must do something you have never done. Things always get worse before they get better. Keep a positive attitude towards things you love. Because your positive attitude will create positive results. If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will also change.
Be Exactly Who You are.
Accept yourself the way you are. Love yourself for who you are. You really don’t need to be accepted by others. You just need to be accepted by yourself. Don’t change yourself so that people can like you. Be yourself and right people will like you for who you really are. To make your life better, you must know who you really are and what you want from life. People will always say that you are going the wrong way when it’s simply a way of your own. Be proud of yourself and confident on the way you choose to live your life. Don’t waste your valuable times comparing yourself with others and wishing to be somebody you are not. Everybody has their own strengths and weaknesses. And it is only when you accept everything you are and you are not that you will truly succeed.
Mike Dooley says, “The only way to get what you really want is to know what you really want. And the only way to know what you really want is to know yourself. And the only way to know yourself, is to be yourself. And the only way to be yourself is to listen to your heart.”
Here are the three important things we need to do in order to make our life better. I realized this is not the best tips. Thisis onlya small partofthe manytips in over the world. I hope this article could be useful for anyone who want make a better life.
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